the aim of any relationship
- with yourself and with others -
is that you are/live/manage the relationship in such a way
that you are living moments of thanksfulness to the related one -
either you, or someone else.
there is a hindu story about the soul of a dead person
which kiss the body to thank for sheltering it through life.
are you in a such a relationship with your Self
and with the other persons?
you are aim-able (able to reach your aim)
if you are ama-(a)ble (able to reach your and other's ama- soul)