A coaching perspective:
reinforcing internal locus of control*
With a
specific approach in career path
Coaching is about ”unlocking a person’s potential to
maximize their own performance”, Sir John Whitmore stated more than two decades
ago, but who does control the.. key?! All professional regulations of this so
efectiv profession stipulate that the coach assists and support the client – listen, asks questions, give
feed forward, challenge, empower – but never ever controls.. the lock’s key. Coaching
is not a magic process, it is a learning process. The key did not twist by voodoo.
Coaching itself is a twist between a present state to a desired one. It is the
client who twist the key.
Coaching is learning about your potential - unleashing talents, and is also learning about reality - exploring options, and is learning about being in control: make the step from will to act. It is not easy to do that, and this fact is more obvious when is about success – even in such situation there is a certain reluctance. How come? To clarify this intriguing aspect, I use to put client the so called control questions: ”What don’t you control? What are you trying to control? What you could control that you are not controlling?”
Coaching is learning about your potential - unleashing talents, and is also learning about reality - exploring options, and is learning about being in control: make the step from will to act. It is not easy to do that, and this fact is more obvious when is about success – even in such situation there is a certain reluctance. How come? To clarify this intriguing aspect, I use to put client the so called control questions: ”What don’t you control? What are you trying to control? What you could control that you are not controlling?”
*excerpt from a large article to be published in International Coaching News magazine